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Looking for Love for All the Wrong Reasons

Are you looking for that special someone to make you happy? Are you looking for security, comfort or intimacy? Do you fear being alone, the one in the corner, not picked?

Love is a complicated emotion. Many seek to fill a hole. Whatever the need, the burden is placed on Mr. or Ms. Right for fulfillment.  

The first place to look is within. Do you love yourself, regardless of your perceived flaws? Do you accept who you are? Is your heart open to give and receive love?

Happiness flows from living in the moment with gratitude.  External people or things can only provide temporary elation. Like icing on the cake, they enhance what is already inside. 

Why?

Did you ever stop to think what motivates you? Why do respond the way you do? Are you avoiding pain or seeking comfort? Does fear of lack drive your career goals? Do you feel inadequate, therefore must prove yourself? Are competing with a sibling for your parents’ approval and love? Are you looking for love in all the wrong places, turning to food, alcohol or drugs? Scratching the surface, you may find a frightened child who needs a hug.

For almost three decades, my husband and I owned a successful photography studio. During those years, my father-in-law often asked my husband when he was going to get a real job. Our parents were programed and they lovingly passed it on to us.

Our egos tell us that we are deficient. We fear criticism and failure. How do you react? Do you find comfort in art, music or hobbies, that feed your soul? Are you anxious and irritable as you stretch for the gold ring? Do you dream about starting a business or writing a book, but talk yourself out of it?

Ask yourself why you do what you do.  If you are happy, you are in alignment with your true self. If not, you are allowing the chatter in your head drive your behavior. Listen to your heart. It will never steer you wrong.

Heart Snapshots: Six Tips for Happiness

Life is a series of snapshots that reside in the heart. Our minds may only recall the happiest or most painful events, but each frame is captured for future review. We choose the pictorial.

Six tips for happiness:

  1. Words and thoughts shape the experience. What we think, we become. Be positive. Trust in your power.
  2. Pain, hurt and loss happen. We control how we respond. Choose love, forgiveness and compassion for healing. Give yourself time.
  3. Enjoy the simple things every day. Notice the beauty and magic in the world.
  4. Take care your soul’s temporary home with diet, exercise, sleep and hydration. With a depleted body, small irritations become insurmountable challenges. Treat yourself.
  5. Trust intuition. Turn off the internal and external noise. Listen to inner guidance, instead of seeking outside validation.
  6. Gratitude

The album is yours to create with love and light.

How May I Serve?

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Many suffer due to the pandemic, fires and hurricanes. Fear, loss, grief, illness and hunger are rampant. Although contributions to food banks, animal shelters and other charities are desperately needed, we can serve, regardless of our financial situations. Each of us has the power to brighten another’s day. Ask the divine how you can serve.

Ten free ideas to spur your imagination are:

  1. Phone call, text, email. Provide encouragement. Show that you care.
  2. Offer to take the garbage can to the road and back for an elderly neighbor
  3. Offer to pick up something at the store
  4. Walk an elderly neighbor’s dog
  5. Rake leaves, shovel snow
  6. Clean closets and donate usable clothing
  7. Smile
  8. Hold the door for someone
  9. Be courteous when driving.
  10. Let someone go ahead of you in the store.

Too Much

Do you feel bombarded from every direction? You are not alone. Technology tethered us to phones, television, social media, internet, podcasts, radios, books and newspapers. Depression runs rampant as negative news assaults our self-worth and hope for the future. Like moths to a flame, we are drawn to that which is destroying us.

In simpler times, Madison Avenue influenced our buying, but we could depend on the major television and radio networks for truth. Today, there are many rogue news outlets that pedal propaganda. Lies and half-truths seep into our beliefs. Like sponges, we adopt fantasy as reality, because we hear it or see it in print.

We must become aware of manipulation, shield from overstimulation and listen for our own truth with loving, kind and open hearts. Rise from division to unity. Humanity is counting on us.

Photo by Naveen Annam

Shut Off the Media

Look at us, floating in space, no strings attached.

What keeps us from falling into the abyss?

The mystical power of what we cannot see and do not understand.

Shut down the media and go within!

Think for yourself.

We are all equipped with a soul to guide us.

Shut off the noise from those who want to influence and control you.

Each of us has a guidance system for truth and love.

Use it!

The animal and plant kingdoms know what to do.

Humans flounder!

Kick greed to the curb. There is abundance for all.

No one is above another.

Show compassion for fellow man, animals and the environment.

Planet resources are for all.

We are one!

Unite!

What Lenses Do You Use?

What lenses do you use to view the World?

Are they scratched and dirty, seeing only the ugly?

Or are they clear to view the big picture,

Including those who serve humanity?

Illness, poverty and injustice plague our planet.

Beauty, kindness and service abound

The rapid downward spiral of negativity leads to the sewer

Lifting up the broken takes co-operation and strength

Your choice whether to curl up in a fear-based fetal position

Or strive to improve the Earth with a loving and kind heart

Come Together

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News Flash!!!!!!

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We are all one

Begotten of the source

Equal are we,

God given perfection

 

Get real, people!

Money, status, job, things

Nothing matters

Illness, death level field

 

Time to treat all

With respect, dignity

For I am you

And you are the next guy

 

Connected souls

For eternity bound

I reflect you

You, my mirror image

 

All shapes, colors,

Sizes of perfection

God’s creations

Sent to spread love and learn

 

Ditch the ego’s fear

Reach for diversity

Angels’ colors

Crayons of the universe

 

Molten Earth spins

No strings, no guides to hold

Orb from plunging

Into vast nothingness

 

Creation rules

Love guides the universe

Be encompassed

Compassion, harmony

Through the Veil

Messages from those beyond

Shunned in disbelief

Man rejects unseen attempts

Comprehend cannot

 

Spirits made of energy

Not of solid mass

Subtle twinges unexplained

Love from nearby realm

 

Feathers, pennies, dragonflies

Birds, the love they bring

Open heart and mind receive

Songs through veil they sing

 

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